tarik rambut

gila stress

Di sebabkan stress sangat nak cerita masa zaman awal-awal kenal husband tersayang. Masa tu buat orthopaedics and sangatlah sebuk. Setiap hari balik lambat. Satu hari balik kerja lepas tu kakak pun cakap, ada org dah akak carikan untuk myself. So saya pun buat muka seposen sebabnya mmg banyak pun org mana mana yang kakak saya carikan untuk saya. I just knew his name and age and what he did and where he was from. Then totally forgot about it.

That year also balik raya. My sister flew back first and then myself. Sampai je Bangi, my sister asked me to guess who was coming for berbuka. I had no idea and guessed my aunts, cousins and sedara mara lain. My sister then said, no lah, Muhaimin nak datang. I was shocked, and excited.

The day before he came, my dad brought a new sofa set. I suppose that was a good sign? My ayah pula yang sangat excited.

Because he was my sister's friend's husband's friend, and my sis's friend herself wore a purdah, it was kinda planned, organised. When he arrived, the men and women were seperated masa berbuka, which was nice coz you get to eat without malu. Saya pun mengintai dari dapur tgk org asing ini, pastu dalam hati ingat 'errr sesuai ke dia ni, macam ustat ustat je nampak mcm baik sangat'. After berbuka, the men went to the mosque and came back. After they came back was the suai kenal session. Gila kelakar masa teringat. Duduk around meja, me, my mum, my sis's friend and my husband lepas tu kena cakap cakap. Dahla sangat malu, tapi rasa macam nak gelak sebab tak penah buat, dah muka pun tersengih sengih macam orang ntahapa hapa.

But once he spoke, his voice was gentle yet firm, his words was clear and I knew that his intention was ikhlas. His appearance and words portrayed a very nice, humble and wise person.

I wouldn't say I fell in love immediately. I think because I was constantly thinking whether he would be suitable for me and accept the rebelious person that I am. Nanti takut lepas kahwin die suruh duk umah je tokleh kerja macam mana. Nanti dia paham ke kerja doktor macam mana.

But I suppose the love developed. After that session. I remember he looked at me only once, and that was when I was stiffling a giggle and looking down as I found the whole suai kenal episode sangat kelakar. It only lasted for about 3 minutes though and then it was isya and the men went to the mosque for prayers.

He won my heart by winning my parents first. After that suai kenal he informed my parents the day after saying that he would like to go ahead with marriage. Sangat cepat and terkejut saya. Tak habis lagi jet lag. From my said I gave no confirmation as I thought everything was happening too fast (tak sedar diri dah tua).

But he continued to win the heart of my parents. He made no contact with me at all, but sent regular emails to my mum. I read every single email, as I asked my mum for her password email account haha. It was always so sweet and nice. I felt so loved already and it was a nice warm feeling.

Until now, he remains the gentlest sweetest and funniest husband. Never has he raised his voice to me at any time. His understanding of my work and on calls and the way he manages our babies makes him a perfect husband and father. I am sure that everyone thinks the world of their husband, and I am not an exception. I thank Allah swt for this blessing and many other.